Know the 411
- Bullying can be direct – name calling, physical harm, or indirect – gossip, rumors, cyber-bullying
- Bullying involves aggressive behavior with the intent to harm
- It is behavior done repeatedly over time
- It occurs within an imbalance of power
- Bullying occurs more when there is less adult supervision
- Bullying is prolonged when bystanders watch or join in
- Boys experience more direct bullying and girls experience more indirect bullying
The following strategies help in preventing and responding to bullying:
- Build friendships
- Avoid being isolated
- Develop problem-solving skills
- Seek help from adults
Start a Conversation
- “What kinds of bullying do you see at school?”
- “What do you think are the best ways to handle bullying?”
- “What thoughts do you have when someone says something mean to you? Do you believe what they say?”
- “What can you think to help yourself be confident?”
Listen and Reflect
- “Sometimes it seems like we shouldn’t tattle, but talking to someone about what is happening can help us think about how to handle it.”
- “Kids can be pretty mean sometimes. Everyone is treated meanly at one time or another.”
- “It sounds like those words were pretty hurtful to you.”
- “What are your options for handling that?”
Affirm
- Affirm for thinking of positive solutions to bullying.
- Affirm for sharing about experiences with bullying.